3 levels of taking s*x into the deep

3 Levels Of Taking s*x Into The Deep

What do we do when we find
ourselves wanting more in our s*xual lives? Many times we try to spice
things up with new positions, novel settings, sexy lingerie, and the
like. For a time these things seem to do the trick, and we welcome the
return of s*xual excitement to our dance. However, it becomes
disappointing when the newness of these things eventually wear off and
we find ourselves once again engaging in boring and shallow encounters.

Even when s*x is physically pleasant and intense, we might still feel
like it is empty, without much depth or meaning. To discover more in
s*x, the answer is not always doing more, but rather going deeper and
being more. As we mature sexually, we are able to experience s*x at
deeper levels. These levels are physical s*x, emotional s*x, and
spiritual s*x.

At the level of physical s*x, our attention is focused on and limited to
our bodies. Our pleasure comes from admiring the physical form of our
partner, relishing in the friction of our bodies rubbing together, and
the pursuit of orgasmic release. s*x has physical meaning.

At the level of emotional s*x, our attention is focused on meeting our
emotional needs. While still including the physical, we now are more
concerned about experiencing emotional comfort, security, and
affirmation with and from our partner. s*x has physical and personal
meaning.

At the level of spiritual s*x, our attention opens to reflect Divine
love during s*x. Our focus is no longer limited to just meeting our
physical and emotional needs, and we now have a holy freedom to be a
true conduit of Love during s*x. s*x has physical, personal, and
transcendent meaning.

It often takes years of practice to grow and experience s*x in the deep,
and this growth should not be rushed or forced. Much like a child
learning to walk or talk, we grow when we are ready. So, fully enjoy s*x
at the physical or the emotional level without guilt. Even so, be
willing to grow when it is time.

If (or more likely when) s*x becomes unfulfilling and you want more,
then see this dissatisfaction as an opportunity for growth. Your answer
for fulfilling s*x might not be in a new technique or a new toy, but
rather in your courage to take s*x into the deep. Let your
dissatisfaction be a reminder to remain open and willing to grow into
your s*xual potential and experience the profound depths of s*xual
intimacy.